Working On Your Prayer Life

Prayer hands

I started my summer realizing that my life was almost void of real prayer.  Having been a pastor now for 10 years I have gotten use to praying at every single event under the sun.  Sunday morning services you pray at least 3 times for each and every service, eating a meal – pray, waking up – pray, going to sleep – pray, hospital visit – pray, counseling – pray, weddings -pray, funerals – pray, town-hall meetings -pray, the kids’ fish across the street drowned – pray… you name it, I’ve bet I have prayed at it and I know that pastors everywhere share the feeling.  The problem isn’t the lack of prayer, the problem is my attitude toward prayer.  I know the words to say and I am confident that Jesus will use my prayers in the lives of those around me, but the heart, my heart, behind the words just wasn’t there.  Don’t hear me wrong, I wasn’t fake praying, my words were real and sought after God’s intervention and will.  I am telling you my attitude, my heart, my mind were not fully engaged into pleading to God nor did I really expect God to answer my prayers.

Real prayer fully engages your heart, mind and beliefs toward God the Father.

It is with this lack luster attitude that I started on a journey over the summer to seek out real prayer in my own life… I had no idea what I was getting into.   During the past 3 months I have experiences moments that I have only heard prayer warriors talk about, I have watched God answer prayers, I have felt comfort in times that I would normally would have lashed out in anger, I have watched God embolden others through my prayers, and I seen my prayers become long term prayers instead of instant gratification prayers.  Below I want to give you the 3 most important aspects to prayer that I have learned that you can implement into your prayer life immediately.  Or immediately start your prayer life.

  • Base Your Prayers on God’s Word

On my bucket list, along with many other things that I have no control over, is the desire to be quoted in a sermon, for God to use my words beyond just my own realm of influence.  I quote others all the time, sharing their insights and wisdom.  I was preaching a few weeks ago and I quoted our pastor, who I’ll call Josh, because that’s his name.  He was sitting in the crowd, and I said “Josh said…”  His head jerked around so fast and he stared right at me, waiting for what I was going to say he said.

If you pray God’s Word, your prayers are directed in the same direction God moving.

In scripture, God has given us promise upon promise that are just as true and relevant for us today as they were to those He gave them to.  If we align our prayers with God’s Word we know without a doubt that our prayers are directed in the same direction God moving.

  • Pray Big, Bold Prayers that Honor God

Sad to say, but my typical prayer was usually for something that I should have taken care of already and because I didn’t, it would have taken a miracle to happen.  Not sure God likes answering “rescue me because I’m lazy” prayers.  Throughout scripture, God answers prayers that only He can answer.  If we are praying for something that we can do, why would God answer it?  Go do it!  Dave Ramsey gives us a modern day version of St. Augustine’s quote, “Pray like it all depends on God, but work like it all depends on you.”

God will glorify Himself through your big, bold prayers.

However, when we pray big, bold prayers that only God can answer, God is given the opportunity to glorify Himself through your prayers.  Elijah prayed for a huge fire, Shadrach Meshach and Abednego prayed to be protected from fire, David prayed to kill a Giant, Samson prayed for God to give him strength… on and on in scripture the prayers are big and bold — and then they went to work!

  • Expect God to Answer Your Prayers

After Elijah prayed for fire he built an alter and drenched it with water; Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego got on their knees and prayed to God, not bowing down to other gods and then were thrown in the fire; can you imagine David’s prayer as he gather up rocks to throw at a giant, then he charged the giant; a blind Samson prayed for strength one more time and then started pushing the pillars a Philistine temple.  These men prayed big, bold prayers and then got to work expecting God to answer them.  Step out on your prayers because stepping out on your prayers shows your faith.  Your faith is not in question when you step out on a prayer, it’s God’s reputation that is on the line.  If we are not expecting our prayers to be answered, then what is really the point in asking?  Is it that old answer, “Just ask.  What is the worse that can happen, he says no?”

When you step out on the promises of God, it is God’s reputation that is on the line.

Our God wants to hear from us.  But, I get the feeling though that our prayers seem a bit dull to Him.  Nothing is impossible for God (Luke 1:37).  If that is true, we need to be praying prayers that are only possible for God and then stepping out on those prayers.  Our Father God wants to give us what we ask for, make Him prove it.  Please don’t hear me saying that God will answer each and every prayer you pray the way you want it answered.  However, I do know that God will answer prayers that are rooted in His promises.  It just may not be when you thought.  He may not answer it even in your life time, but He will answer.

 Jonathan Haley Uhrig © 2014


***Who and What did I study…  I started in scripture looking at the prayer life of Jesus, David, Paul, Abraham, Moses, Isaiah and Jeremiah.  I then read books by Mark Batterson, Matt Chandler, Kyle Idleman, Charles Stanley, Eric Mason & Tim Keller.  I had a steady diet of sermons by Matt Chandler, Louie Giglio, John MacArthur and John Piper.  Finally I prepared a sermon about bold prayers.  These books and sermons were not necessarily on prayer, in fact most of them were not.  However, listening with an ear tuned to prayer and promises from God, God used their words.  Thank You.

7 Questions to Ask During Your Personal Bible Study

7 Questions to Ask During Your Personal

Sitting down to have a personal Bible Study is something that most of us as believers do not do enough.  Then there is the question, “When I sit down to study scripture, what do I do?”  Its a really good question and shows where pastors have let you down by not teaching what to do.  Sadly, it might really be because a lot of pastors have no clue how to have a personal Bible Study.  After reading a portion of scripture I often find myself thinking wow, that was really cool, but no clue how to deal with what God wants to teach me through the verse.

Here are 7 questions to ask during your personal Bible Study that will help you know what God is revealing about Himself through His Word.

  1. What does this truth say about God?
    • Why would God even say it?
  2. What would my life look like if I actually believed it were true?
  3. Why did this passage catch my eye?
    • Why did it make me curious? What stirred that curiosity?
  4. How does my culture twist, distort, or reject this?
    • How has culture affected me regarding this truth?
  5. Why don’t I really believe this; or, to what degree do I doubt it?
  6. How does this truth make me love God more?
  7. What do I need to change in my thinking or actions to align myself with its truth?

There are many questions to be answered about having a personal time in the word.  My suggestion is to pick a book in the New Testament and start.  I am not against the Old Testament, in fact I love seeing God weave the gospel throughout the entity of scripture.  However, when starting out reading and meditating over scripture I have found that the truths communicated in New Testament are a lot easier to understand and apply to our lives.   Print these questions off and put them in a place you can see them and use them.

 Jonathan Haley Uhrig © 2014


*Questions originally Posted by Sam Williamson on his Blog Beliefs of the Heart in the post  Hearing God in Meditation ,originally posted July 15, 2014.